Coaching Title 85 Title: Mrs. Carol Holliman Gender: feminine Age: 42 years outdated T- 98.zero P- 77 R 18 132/72 Ht 5’zero Wt 127lbs Background: Born and raised in Northern Eire, mother and father introduced her and her 5 sisters to U.S. when she was 15 to go to U.S. college the place she met her husband. They dwell in Charleston, SC. She obtained her bachelor’s diploma in schooling; no historical past of psychological well being or substance use remedy, no household historical past. Her husband reported a latest faculty capturing close by three weeks in the past “flipped a swap” in her. She is watching the information 24/7, barely sleeping, and even when she does, it’s just a few hours, Urge for food is decreased. Hx of hysterectomy, NKDA, no authorized hx. Symptom Media. (Producer). (2017). Coaching title 85 [Video]. https://video-alexanderstreetcom.ezp.waldenulibrary.org/watch/training-title-85
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CAROL Sorry, I, I am unable to discover it.
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OFF CAMERA It is okay.
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CAROL No, it isn’t. The place is it? I by no means, I by no means depart with out it. Oh Jesus.
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OFF CAMERA What’s it you are on the lookout for?
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CAROL My cell. I by no means examine the b. . . um, the trunk. I’ve to go.
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OFF CAMERA You appear very upset to not have your cellphone with you.
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CAROL After all, who would not be? We’ll have to speak another time.
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OFF CAMERA Your husband should have his cellphone, he known as that you simply have been operating late.
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CAROL Yeah, he has his cellphone, however . . .
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OFF CAMERA However what?
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CAROL The kids don’t name their father when they need one thing.
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OFF CAMERA They by no means name your husband?
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CAROL No, they solely name me.
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OFF CAMERA Uh-huh, are you anticipating your kids to name?
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CAROL My kids are at dwelling with the babysitter, my neighbor. She’s a widow. I simply, I do not really feel snug, in case they want me. And I all the time name, they will be frightened if I do not.
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OFF CAMERA How usually do you name your kids whenever you’re away from dwelling?
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CAROL I do not know, just a few occasions. Simply regular checking.
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OFF CAMERA Do you’re employed?
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CAROL I am a mom, so sure, I work.
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OFF CAMERA I am sorry, I did not imply to counsel parenting is not work. It very a lot is figure. Do you even have a job outdoors of the house?
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CAROL I used to earn a living from home. I give up my job after my final youngster, Colin, he is 5 now. However, this actually is not the time for this proper now. Nor ever, actually. I am simply right here as a courtesy, no offense.
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OFF CAMERA I perceive you do not need to be right here. However it could be useful if we may discuss for a couple of minutes. Maybe your husband can name your kids. Would you like me to go get him for you?
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CAROL I will be fantastic. We are able to discuss for 5 extra minutes.
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OFF CAMERA Thanks. You appear to have robust emotions that you simply need to name your kids. However you would not have robust emotions that you simply need to ask your husband to name them.
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CAROL He refuse. We do not see eye-to-eye. However I am not right here for marriage counseling.
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OFF CAMERA What’s your understanding about why you are right here?
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CAROL Ask my husband, Greg.
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OFF CAMERA What present issues do you’ve got whenever you depart your kids?
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CAROL There is a laundry checklist on that one. Begin with serial rapists and finish with Newtown, and you’ve got solely scratched the floor.
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OFF CAMERA How usually do you are worried about these varieties on incidents?
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CAROL I am mom of three. I’ve to remember the world as it’s. A part of my job description. Each day, folks die from gun deaths. 18,00zero individuals are raped. Over 50,00zero kids go lacking yearly.
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OFF CAMERA These are unsettling statistics.
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CAROL Dr. Phil did a profile on a serial rapist, that was horrifying. I known as my pals to look at it. I TiVo’ed it for them.
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OFF CAMERA Do you comply with loads of information applications?
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CAROL Yeah.
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OFF CAMERA What do you have a tendency to look at?
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CAROL Many of the reveals. I’ve CNN on background for once I’m doing laundry or cooking, or prepping classes.
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OFF CAMERA Classes, what classes do you put together?
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CAROL For the kids.
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OFF CAMERA Oh, do you faculty your kids at dwelling?
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CAROL Sure, I homeschool my kids. I do not admire your connotations. The stereotype that homeschooling is for spiritual nuts is outdated. The truth is our faculty techniques are damaged. Our public colleges cannot even afford safety for our youngsters.
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OFF CAMERA Was that one of many causes you determined to homeschool your kids was due to faculty violence?
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CAROL You imply… ?
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OFF CAMERA Pardon?
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CAROL Ridge View?
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OFF CAMERA Sure, Ridge View, uh-huh.
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CAROL 12 college students murdered, three lecturers gunned down attempting to guard college students. They could not defend themselves. Campus police did not have time to cease it. That child’s mom and father lay lifeless of their home for over per week earlier than that faculty bloodbath. Immediately Present profiled the ex-girlfriend. She stated there was loads of warning indicators. Did the directors pay attention? No. Nobody was able to seeing what was coming. But, their indicators have been apparent. That youngster assassin drew horrifying photos in his artwork lessons, and you realize what the lecturers stated?
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OFF CAMERA No.
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CAROL The lecturers defended him. Mentioned his evil paintings was a college task. Sure, to reply your Question Assignment. Sure, I feel faculty violence is a motive for homeschooling kids.
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OFF CAMERA Do these violent occasions appear to stick with you, dangle with you?
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CAROL I see these kids’s faces. They might have been my kids. Greg is heartless. As a substitute of serving to me defend our youngsters, he despatched me to a shrink.
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OFF CAMERA Do you suppose that there are occasions the place you over-worry?
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CAROL I will not lose my kids.
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OFF CAMERA Do you concern that comparable violent occasions could occur right here at these colleges?
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CAROL Ridge View is simply 100 miles from right here, 100. That will as effectively be one mile.
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OFF CAMERA How lengthy have you ever been homeschooling your kids?
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CAROL Two months.
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OFF CAMERA So that you started homeschooling them, in order that was a couple of month after the Ridge View incident shootings?
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CAROL Yeah. Once I pulled the kids from faculty, Greg and I had a giant struggle, however it’s for the most effective. The kids are studying extra now than they ever discovered at college. They nonetheless socialize, they nonetheless have pals. Now, my girlfriends are contemplating doing the identical with their kids. They see how effectively mine are doing. My girlfriends are each bit as frightened as I used to be. This is not some form of frantic phobia on my half. I am an informed lady about these issues. Greg, does not perceive what it is wish to lose household.
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OFF CAMERA Do you’ve got stronger emotions about shedding folks than your husband does?
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CAROL Sure, I do.
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OFF CAMERA Have you ever misplaced individuals who have been near you?
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CAROL My mother and father, automobile accident, drunk driver, I used to be 19.
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OFF CAMERA Oh, I am sorry to listen to that.
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CAROL It occurs, like that. They’re gone. I will not lose a baby. I will not lose extra folks I like.
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OFF CAMERA Have these fears been growing extra just lately for you? Preoccupying you, extra of your time?
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CAROL Sure. I take into consideration what occurred to me, to my mother and father, what may occur to my kids.
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OFF CAMERA What’s it like to understand you can not defend them the entire time?
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CAROL That is what Greg says.
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OFF CAMERA Do you disagree with him?
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CAROL You defend them from what you’ll be able to. You cease what you’ll be able to. I could not stop that driver from sideswiping my mother and father, pinning them to the freeway median. I can stop one other Adam Lanza from pointing a gun at my infants. I will not ship them again to high school. I will not flip off the tv, and I will not cease informing myself. I’ll do what I can as a mom to guard my kids. I am sorry, I’ve to finish this now, and name my kids. I will name them now.
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